A woman’s euphoric engagement quickly turned into a nightmare when her fiancé’s family made a ridiculous request that made her think twice about being in a relationship.
Someone loved her fiance. Since she didn’t want to spend the rest of her life with anyone else, she thought they were a wonderful match.
I was asked to marry my fiancé around eight months ago. We decided to have a two-day, small-scale wedding. Everything was moving quite smoothly. The woman said, “We are madly in love, and he looks to be absolutely perfect.”
Two days prior to their wedding, her fiancé made an unusual request when he approached her: he wanted his father to check her hymen in front of his brothers and uncles to determine whether she was still a virgin.
The proposal sounded absurd to the woman, who laughed it off. When her fiancé claimed he was serious, she was shocked.
The night before the wedding, in his family, the father tests a bride’s virginity to make sure she is still “pure.” The woman said she wasn’t sure she would comply with the request and voiced suspicion about it.
The man told her that his mother had to go through it too and insisted she do so. She remarked, “He said it would prove how much I love him.” In addition, he deceived her by saying that if she was a virgin, she had nothing to hide.
What Action Did She Take?
The woman was taken aback. Her future spouse was left in tears as she made the decision to leave. She said, “It was very dramatic.”
She loved the man and wanted to live a lifetime with him, but there was a part of her that wanted to call off the wedding immediately. In an attempt to fit in with the family, she started to consider the strange ceremony.
She went to a friend’s house for safety while she thought about her alternatives. The following morning, she told her fiancé that he had to accept her decision and that she would not permit the men in her family to examine her.
The man was adamant that he had to follow through in order for their wedding to proceed. Then, when she refused to participate in the ceremony, he charged her with lying about being a virgin.
The woman handled the matter with composure and reason the entire time. But the man became hostile, and the more she attempted to defend herself, the more irate he became.
The woman said, “I told him he would stand by me on this and tell his father no if he really loved me.” She thought he would change his mind and agree, but she was taken aback by his response.
The woman who had said this had been smacked for it, not offered his support. He assured his fiancée that he had nothing to prove.
The woman was devastated to discover that he was not the ideal man she had previously fallen in love with. She made the decision to put off their wedding after realizing he was someone entirely different.
The woman was dissatisfied with the scenario. Before moving on and getting back up on her feet, she let herself experience all of her feelings while living with her buddy.
Many were stunned by this story and assumed it was fiction until the woman maintained it was real. In such a circumstance, how would you respond?