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VIAN, Okla. — Dallas Frisby is a 27-year-old from Vian with autism who spends his days doing something he says brings him the most joy: helping others.
When he’s not playing video games, listening to ABBA, or taking care of his dog, Daisy, he works at the local Harps Food Stores in Vian, where coworkers and customers say he’s become a familiar and welcoming face.
Dallas says his purpose has always been simple. Whether he’s stocking shelves, sweeping floors, or helping customers at the register, he says he’s always ready to jump in.
“I love helping people, always,” Dallas said. “Whatever they want me to do, I am always here for them.”
For some in the community, that attitude has made a lasting impact. Bobbie Sneed, Dallas’ friend and regular customer, says seeing him completely changes her day.
“It doesn’t matter how my day’s going or what kind of day it is. It’s always better after I’ve seen Dallas,” Sneed said. “We always exchange a sidearm hug, check on each other, see how we’re doing. He’s just such an inspiration. I just love him to pieces.”
Dallas says making people feel valued is what means the most to him, guided by one simple message.
“It makes me so happy…kindness, always,” he said.
Dallas’ sister, Michayla Frisby, says that kindness has always been part of who he is.
“He’s always been my best friend since growing up. I remember, we’d go into school holding hands every day,” Michayla said. “If everybody was a little bit more like Dallas, the world would be a better place.”
His mother, JoAnna Hawley, says that message has defined his entire life.
“Receiving an autism diagnosis can be overwhelming, but don’t let it define your child’s future and don’t let anyone put limits on your child,” JoAnna said.
She says parents often see more than the world does.
“There’s always more than people can see, and you know your child better than anybody else does,” JoAnna said. “I was told when he was little that I would never have a meaningful conversation with him, but we have meaningful conversations every day.”
She says Dallas has taught her patience and shown her what truly matters in life.
“He’s taught me more than I’ve taught him. He’s taught me how to love unconditionally,” she said. “He loves everybody. He’ll find something good in everybody.”
JoAnna hopes others see Dallas’ story as an example of what can happen when people are supported and believed in.
“His journey may look different, but it’s full of purpose and so much love,” JoAnna said. “My hope is that people continue to become more aware and accepting of kids and adults with autism. When they have people who believe in them, advocate for them, and love them for who they are, they can thrive in ways people never imagined.”
The family is especially grateful for the community that has embraced him.
“We are especially thankful to Harps Food Stores for giving him a job, and to his coworkers and our community for embracing and loving Dallas for who he is.”